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Traditions of the HolidaysLauantai 18.12.2021 15:32

My grandma taught me how to construct gum wrapper chains when I was 12 years old. It's simple: fold a candy wrapper into a rectangle with two flaps, fold across the middle, then thread another candy wrapper through it. If you repeat this process enough times, you'll finish up with a zigzag-shaped garland. I worked on it constantly, folding new parts from a bag of brilliantly coloured wrappers that family and friends had saved for me. We hung it on the Christmas tree when it was about 10 feet long in the winter. After that, my parents hung it on the tree every year until the paper became brittle with age and broke into multiple pieces. A piece of it is still in my possession, tucked away in a storage unit.
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We started a tradition of going to the Catskills on the morning before Christmas to attend my parents' Christmas Eve party and then visiting Cody's on Christmas Day when I moved away to college.

I prepared an apple pie for my father one year because it was his favourite. I tweaked the recipe to resemble a legendary apple pie made by a woman in our neighbourhood when I was a child. It featured an impossible to resist buttery crust and a cinnamon-spiced interior with soft apple chunks that weren't too crunchy or mushy. I thought my version would be worthy of those memories. The family proclaimed it a success, and my father was so pleased that I vowed I'd do it every time, which I did. It's the same routine every year: bake pies, wrap presents, and drive to the Catskills. Until recently, that is.

Christmas cards were another dependable sign of the season. These little touchpoints of contact from friends and family near and far always made me smile when I got them in the mail. I acquired a linoleum block and created a winter scene - a rabbit in snowy woods — and started hand printing our own cards many years ago. I pressed art paper against an inky block with a rolling pin in the draughty carriage barn until I had fifty cards. I intended to carry on the tradition in the future, but I gave up after the first year, as I do with so many high-effort endeavours. I did, however, continue to send standard cards — personalised, with a photo of the cats or a snowy setting. It had been a tradition for me to choose a photo around Thanksgiving and order them in late November, then spend an afternoon addressing them and dropping them in a mailbox on my way to work. I'd keep all of the cards we received in return on the mantle in our living room until New Year's - first in our apartment, then in our house.

In the year 2020, I did not send any cards. Many people didn't, I presume because no one felt like writing Christmas greetings or choosing a photo from that tragic year.

We did accomplish a few minor goals. My primary focus was on making a wreath; we didn't have any pines on the old farmhouse land, so we went to a nearby state forest and cut some inconspicuous branches. I hung it on our front door after tying them to a wreath form and wrapping it in a velvet ribbon. We didn't buy each other gifts and just bought a handful for close family members. A few days before Christmas, we saw folks separately for short visits. We spent Christmas Day alone. We tried to find something on TV that wasn't a celebration of kids or family while I was still hurting from my first miscarriage. We must have given up and gone to bed early.

This year, I realise how much I missed everything — even the things I used to complain about, like waiting in line to buy apples at a crowded co-op or staying up till midnight baking pies. Expensive meals, decorations that are only unpacked and hung for a few weeks, and gifts that are lovingly wrapped and ribboned are all things we do for the holidays that we wouldn't typically consider fair. I've realised that we do it because we secretly enjoy these activities and need an excuse to indulge in them. We need a holiday to motivate us to put up the effort that special occasions necessitate.

This year, I'm going to do a lot more. While we won't be hosting any large meetings in the near future, I've restored some of the old customs. I purchased and mailed more cards than I'd ever sent before. We bought each other gifts. In the mail, I received a gingerbread home kit. We also got a tree for the first time.

We've never had a tree in our house before, even if it was a fake one. Years ago, we tried with a small potted one, but our sassy cats wouldn't leave it alone, so we had to put it away in a guest room.

This year, we took a hacksaw across the brook and into a meadow, and worked together to cut down a new tree on our property. It's a big pine, taller than I am and with a lot of dense branches. We lugged it back up the wide field and loaded it onto the flatbed. "Do you think the animals are going to wreak havoc on it?" I stated. "Perhaps," Cody answered. "But let's give it a shot."

As a result, the tree is now in the living room. Surprisingly, the animals ignore it. All of our ornaments are currently in storage, but I did purchase some lights. I went with the classics and got candy-colored ornaments, just like we used to have on the tree when I was a kid. I was walking Gracie down by the lake the other night when I noticed them gleaming through our living room windows. At Christmas, it appeared to be just like any other year.

I mailed the most of my cards last week and a few more this week. I noticed a large box at the end of the driveway the other day on my way back from the mailbox. "Are you expecting anything?" says the narrator. I inquired since we don't want to spoil the surprise of mail-ordered gifts.

Cody explained, "My folks claimed they were sending something." "However, it isn't a Christmas present." They advised that we open it right away."

Two crates included dozens of Christmas decorations from their personal collection. "They're for our tree," says the narrator. As a result, we'll be able to decorate it this year."

So now our tree is in the living room, glistening with brilliant fairy lights and brimming with ornaments borrowed from previous Christmases. Every morning, I switch on the lights and turn them off at night. I gaze over at it as I work at my desk throughout the day, this clear sign of winter, Christmas, and the end of the year.

It was a one-of-a-kind gift, crafted with thought, care, and work. As with all the best holiday customs

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